Saturday, August 19, 2006
~ 11:56 AM ~
It's been rather long since i blogged. Been really busy especially with school work. I guess everyone is kind of stressed up now. Sometimes I just feel like i can't take it anymore...what if i breakdown during A's... haha stop thinking...
Does being good and doing your work always means you will always do so in the future?
Does this make you a really obedient and diligent person?
Does mean you can never not do your work?
Does it mean you cannot slack?
Why do you get surprised faces and stupid comments when you don't do your work for once?
You tell them you are skipping lesson and skeptical faces appear.
When you really do skip they are shocked.
Didn't you tell them so already?
There's no need to explain.
They have no need know why as well.
Just be yourself and don't get affected by what they say.
Be yourself!!!
One morning in school...
Student Good Girl didn't do her tutorial. She was in class doing last minute work and asking for help. In comes her 3 classmates. Upon seeing her, they stared and exclaimed:" You didn't do your tutorial! How come! Thought you were always prepared for lessons!" Student Good Girl was frustrated. " Ya lah ya lah! All of you very smart lah do your tutorial liao. Fine I sucked and I am lazy. Happy!"
She didn't not do because she didn't want to. She had a reason and a valid one. But no one listens. Explaining only make things worse.
People always judge by the appearance. They do not really give people the chance to explain. They assume. Are you one who assumes too? Assumptions are usually wrong and inaccurate. Don't let friendship sour by assuming. Don't let family ties loosen by assuming. Don't let relationship turn bad by assuming. Take time to listen. Not just listen but open your heart when you do so.
Swift to Hear, Slow to Speak, Slow to Wrath" (James 1:19)
Shu ; )
